My newly married friend organised baby shower for me not knowing her husband is my baby daddy – Lady narrates

A Nigerian woman has expressed her guilt over having an affair together with her newly married good friend’s husband and changing into pregnant.

She claimed it occurred in December final yr whereas they had been planning their marriage ceremony, and he or she had a short second of weak point that led to her sleeping with the person.

In response to the girl, she was a bridesmaid on the marriage ceremony, and when she advised the person she was pregnant, he requested her to take away it, however she refused.

Her child was born in September of this yr, and her newlywed good friend threw her a child bathe with out figuring out that her husband is the kid’s father.

The bridesmaid said that she feels compelled to inform her good friend the reality as a result of she has been superb to her and he or she doesn’t assume she will be able to proceed to maintain it a secret.

In her phrases; ‘‘My good friend received married in December final yr and I used to be one of many bridesmaids. Through the preparations of the marriage I had a second of weak point and slept together with her man, which led to me falling pregnant.

The man tried to get me to abort however I refused as a result of I don’t consider in killing harmless souls. I gave start in September this yr. My good friend is the one who organised a babyshower. She doesn’t know that my child is her stepchild.

My drawback is guilt is consuming me alive. I swore to my child daddy that his spouse won’t ever know, however seeing her so supportive and sisterly to me is breaking my coronary heart. She confides in me about every part, together with her household’s funds and future plans. I don’t know if I can maintain this secret any longer.

My good friend is weak and I do know she’s going to hit a psychological breakdown if she finds out. I don’t know deal with this. Please advise me. You don’t need to remind me that I’m a nasty good friend, I do know that already. I simply need you to assist me to get out of this guilt. Depart judging to God as a result of nobody is ideal .”